The rural daughter-in-law of the bank president

Chapter 608: Boundary? I can keep my distance from you!

Lele continued: "They said: I am who I am. I am not perfect, and I don't need to be perfect. I accept my imperfect self. When we return to ourselves and fully accept ourselves, we are free!

Who doesn’t know how to accept themselves, who doesn’t know how to return to themselves, but how to accept, how to return?

This question troubled me for a long time, so I went to study psychology, but in the end, it was life that gave me the answer!

When I no longer worry about money, all problems truly return to myself - yes, myself!

Now, let’s return to the specific question we just raised:

Marriage or work - choose whoever can guarantee your long-term quality of life!

Pursue career or have children - if having children does not affect the quality of life, then have more!

If you want to divorce, does it have anything to do with the children? If you can guarantee that your quality of life is better than in marriage, then divorce!

Even being a housewife is fine. As long as you are able to manage the household and have enough financial autonomy, you will still have enough freedom.

......

With the foundation and premise, can specific problems be easily solved? "

There was endless discussion in the audience, and Lele was silent for another half minute. She understood the idealism and utopian romanticism of college students.

"Economic independence and financial freedom require us to work hard and create, which is the most important part of women's growth - the material foundation.

Finally, I want to go back to the beginning. At the beginning of the speech, I said: I found that balance and moved freely between dependence and independence.

Now I want to say: I want to forget about balance, so what if I’m unbalanced?

Because I have enough freedom!"

After saying this, Lele spread his arms, bowed deeply, and ended his speech.

The audience was silent for a moment, then erupted into thunderous applause that lasted for a long time.

Lele bowed again, and Yang Tong came on stage to give closing remarks.

The brave students came up to ask for autographs and contact information, and the group was immediately surrounded.

After being surrounded for half an hour, the crowd slowly dispersed.

Lele breathed a sigh of relief, but found that Teacher Guan was still sitting in the back, looking at her with a smile.

Feifei, Pingping, He Yuntian and others sat next to them.

Lele walked over.

Teacher Guan clapped his hands and said, "Great! This is much more interesting than my lectures!"

"Hahaha!" The students laughed.

"Pediatrics, your professional course can't compare." Lele smiled and moved closer to Teacher Guan.

"Thank you Lele!" Teacher Guan said suddenly.

"What are you thanking me for?" Lele was a little surprised.

Teacher Guan didn't say anything, but stood up with a smile. "You guys chat, I'm leaving now. Let's have dinner together tomorrow?"

Everyone stood up to see Teacher Guan off, and Lele followed at the classroom door.

Only Teacher Guan and Lele were left. Teacher Guan whispered in Lele's ear, "I've been upset about my divorce for many years, but today, I've suddenly let it go!"

"Teacher Guan!" Lele took Teacher Guan's arm. "It doesn't matter if you don't have balance. No one can do everything well!"

"Well! Thank you!" Teacher Guan walked away without looking back.

Lele watched the teacher leave and returned to the classroom.

The squad leader treated us to a drink in the evening.

Lele was weaned and drank two small cups. When he was drinking the third cup, Feifei stopped him.

Lele's face was flushed and her big eyes were misty. She no longer had the wisdom and sharpness she had when giving a speech, but was now full of laziness and playfulness.

She looked at Feifei doubtfully, "So, you were also bribed by Wei Wuya?"

Feifei covered her mouth and laughed, "Don't try to be tough if you can't drink!"

Lele frowned and sighed silently.

He Yuntian narrowed his eyes and smiled, "I don't think you have freedom either?"

Lele pouted, "No one has absolute freedom!"

We chatted and drank until twelve o'clock.

……

On the 7th, Lele went to Xijing Huagong for inspection.

On the 8th, He Yuntian returned to Tianjin, and Lele went with him.

Xiaobai's son was only five years old, and He Yuntian adopted the child as his godson.

Xiaobai's parents are in their fifties and are honest and simple.

It was they who persuaded their daughter-in-law to leave. They had already lost their own child and couldn't bear to have another one.

Lele was touched and pulled He Yuntian over to ask, "Could you arrange a cleaning position at Huagong's learning center? Would it be suitable?"

He Yuntian nodded repeatedly, "It's perfect. I was just worried they wouldn't want the money if I gave them!"

Lele shared his idea with the old man, and the old man was very grateful.

Jinshi has already opened five learning centers and is preparing to open three more.

Lele asked in the management group and found out that there was a new store that had just opened. Currently, the cleaning was still done by a housekeeping company, so they arranged it directly.

Lele went to inspect it and took it with him, and the matter was settled.

In the evening, Lele flew directly from Jinshi to Donghai.

When I got home, it was already past ten o'clock.

Lin Xianglan and others were in the living room on the first floor, leaning on the sofa and watching TV.

Seeing Lele come in, he turned off the TV and said, "Oh, it's so late. Are you tired?"

Wu Kun took the box and went upstairs. Lele hugged Lin Xianglan and said, "I'm glad that the children are asleep."

"Yeah, they're asleep. Wuya hasn't come back yet. Moyuan is sleeping on the second floor, and Shufen is staying with him on the lower bunk. Lingxi is with the nanny."

After Mo Yuan's birthday, they started sleeping in separate rooms, but he was still afraid because the villa was too big.

Wei Wuya opened a door between their bedroom and the next room, and Mo Yuan usually slept in the next room.

He would only sleep in the room on the second floor if Lele and Wei Wuya were not at home.

Lin Xianglan and Wei Qifeng, who had lived in separate rooms for many years, finally slept in the same room. Lin Xianglan was a little worried about Wei Qifeng's health.

In this way, Lingxi sleeps with the nanny most of the time.

"Let's go, you should go back to sleep too, it's quite late." Lele took Lin Xianglan's arm and went to take the elevator.

Seeing Lin Xianglan enter the bedroom, Lele couldn't help but knock on the nanny's door.

The nanny opened the door and said, "Madam, you are back."

"Yeah, let me see Lingxi." Lele said as he walked into the bedroom.

There is a warm yellow table lamp at the head of the bed. Lingxi is sleeping in the small bed. Her chubby little face is white and tender, and her little hands are raised.

The hair on the top of his head has grown back and is now thick, black, and you can't tell at all that he was bald before.

Lele leaned down, arched his face, and walked out.

I went up to the second floor and knocked on the door. Shufen came to open it. "Hey, he said he was waiting for mom. He couldn't hold it in and just fell asleep."

Lele climbed up to the upper bunk, took a look, and tucked the quilt in. "Go to sleep. You can kiss him again tomorrow morning!"

After returning to the room, Lele washed up and waited for Wei Wuya.

It was almost twelve o'clock when Wei Wuya entered the community.

Lele went downstairs and waited in the garage.

A few minutes later, Wei Wuya's car came in.

Wei Wuya opened the car window and asked, "Are you still waiting so late?"

Lele's mouth corners unconsciously raised, and she smiled sweetly, "I miss you!"

Wei Wuya licked the corner of his mouth with the tip of his tongue, and the smile at the corner of his eyes was so thick that it couldn't be dissolved.

Step on the accelerator and park the car.

He got out of the car, tugged at the collar of his shirt with his right hand, and before Lele could greet him, he stepped forward and restrained the man. Lele raised her eyes, her watery eyes full of charm.

Wei Wuya sighed softly and hugged him tightly: "You are talking about boundaries with me, someone who can keep a distance from you?"

Lele was stunned, and it took him a long time to react. His face turned red, and he didn't dare to say a word!